This book by the Gottman’s explores all their understanding around making a positive and successful relationship from their 40 years of study. A really good book to read to understand what you can do to improve your relationship.
This book explores relationships change when you bring home your new born child. It explains the things you can try to keep your relationship strong when the dynamics between you change dramatically, and you are both tired and feeling different.
Shirley Glass has studied affairs for many years, and before her illness and death, worked with many couples experiencing the betrayal in their relationship. This book is helpful for all parties involved, but we find most couples get more from it once the rawness and anger has passed a little.
Esther Perel has studied relationships for many years. In this book, she has explored affairs. Although we don’t follow all of her views, this is a good book to read to try and understand affairs, what drives people into them, and explores that affairs are not always a sign that the marriage is in a poor state.